Do You Need to Slow Down?
Because I’m headed to Virginia this week to spend Thanksgiving with my husband’s family (and because I assume many of you will be feeling the rush of trying to fit a week’s worth of work into less than a week’s worth of days), I decided to refresh and replay one of my favorite older posts for you.
Are You Living Life At Warp 10?
I first heard about warp 10 through the Season 2 episode of Star Trek: Voyager called “Threshold.”
The starship Voyager is stranded in the Delta quadrant (Earth is in the Alpha quadrant). Even if they could travel at their fastest speed the whole time, they’re still 75 years from home. And more than anything they want to get home to the loved ones who think they’re dead.
Lieutenant Tom Paris, Voyager’s pilot, along with his two closest friends, comes up with a plan to get them home sooner—warp 10. Theoretically, warp 10 is impossible. You wouldn’t really be moving at all. You’d be everywhere at once. By traveling at warp 10, they could simply be home again instantly.
Paris, however, has solved the puzzle, and they’ve equipped a shuttle with warp 10 capabilities. Before he leaves, the doctor warns Paris there’s a two percent chance he could die due to a rare medical condition. He decides to take the risk. He argues this is his one chance to do something truly great, something that will go into history books.
He breaks the warp 10 barrier, and for a moment, it’s amazing. He’s everywhere. He can see Voyager and knows they’re looking for him, but he can also see home, their enemies, everything. The data he collects is invaluable.
And he’s achieved his goal. He’s made history.
Although Paris doesn’t die due to his medical condition, his time at warp 10 mutates his genes. He can’t drink water or breathe oxygen anymore. Before the doctor can treat him, his mind goes, he kidnaps Captain Kathryn Janeway, goes back to warp 10 to find a planet, and they both end up mutated lizards on a non-oxygen atmosphere planet with three lizard babies.
Living life at warp 10 is like that (minus the kidnapping and lizard babies of course).
You move as fast as you possibly can, and for a moment, it’s amazing. You’re able to be everything for everyone and do everything you need to. You’re doing it because you have a dream of doing something important, and that dream is worth the risks and sacrifices.
Except if you only stay at warp 10, you find yourself mutating into something you don’t like. I don’t like how tired I am and how I can’t enjoy the simple things that were once essential (you know, like Paris and his water and oxygen). I don’t like how I sometimes snap at my loved ones. I’ve been moving too fast for far too long.
So while I want the experience of life at warp 10, the discoveries it brings and the chance it provides to reach my dream, I’m trying to also come back and get a treatment of slowing down and enjoying the simple things in life. Being able to successfully live life at warp 10 requires finding balance.
After all, I don’t think my husband would really appreciate me having lizard babies with someone else.
What keeps you moving at warp 10? What do you love about it? How do you make sure you don’t miss the simple pleasures along the way?
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Nov 19, 2012 @ 12:28:27
I could probably stand to read this post once a week. I’m usually doing too much and going to fast. Until I realize that I need to slow down, and then I camp out on the couch in my pjs. I guess I still haven’t found the balance. 🙂
Nov 19, 2012 @ 13:33:37
I suspect this is an ongoing battle for most of us because we’re faced with so many options for things we could be doing with our time and the societal pressure to move at a speed that no generation before ours has been expected to maintain.
Nov 19, 2012 @ 14:01:54
I’m an attorney and worked every day and ridiculous hours. When I lost the job in the recession, I realize I had forgotten how to be human. Walking in a mall was foreign and awkward. I started writing for children and that has helped me find myself again.
Nov 19, 2012 @ 14:05:25
Thank you for sharing your story. You’ve pointed out one of the greatest dangers–that we get so busy we forget what it really means to be human. I’m glad you’ve found that again 🙂
Nov 19, 2012 @ 16:32:25
I’m nearly at the mutant lizard babies stage. I work crazy hours all week, and then run virtually every weeknight and all weekend with my kids. My brain and my body has rebelled the last month. Need to get organized and prioritize or everything I’ve been working for might vaporize :/
Nov 19, 2012 @ 16:43:46
I almost hit the mutant lizard babies point this fall too. (You know, now that’s how we’re probably going to describe it to each other from now on :P) My mind and body are grinding to a halt and no amount of beating and berating is convincing them to keep going. I don’t want to see everything I’ve worked so hard for crash and burn when it feels like I’m on the cusp of reaching some of what I want. Like you said, time for some restructuring.
Nov 19, 2012 @ 16:53:17
The last four weeks, I lose an hour, sometimes two or three just staring out the window not thinking – unaware of how much time has passed. I fall asleep at my desk daily. Now I’m sick. Something’s gotta give.
Nov 19, 2012 @ 17:02:08
I’m sending you hugs because that’s all I can do.
Nov 19, 2012 @ 17:22:37
Marcy, I am cracking up over the whole “mutant lizard babies” description, though I think that sums up the crazy that can ensue from moving too fast pretty well. I’m actually on research leave this year, so I’m not teaching or taking classes, and it’s… weird. Odd. Strange. I have a lot of free time, and I feel really guilty about it. I’m used to hanging onto my sanity by a thread, and now that I can sit around and nap whenever I want, I don’t really know how to handle it. It’s like a terrible by-product of living at warp speed: by the time you actually have the ability to chill out, you forget how to do it.
Nov 20, 2012 @ 16:29:51
Glad you liked it 😉
You’ve just mentioned one of the things I’m afraid of. When I do manage to have dedicated time off (say Christmas or a vacation) when I’m expected to be resting, I can’t seem to adapt. It is a terrible by-product of living at warp speed, and it isn’t healthy for any of us.
Nov 19, 2012 @ 18:15:48
Oh, no! that’s what those things are, running around the house! Mutant lizard babies.
I managed to stay at Warp 10 for a couple of weeks, but now I’m crashing and burning. My brain is on strike & I’m always tired, & finding myself wasting more time. I am trying to rethink everything, what’s gotta go, what’s gotta stay, but I broke my compass.
Despite all that, I do stop to tickle my kiddos. I can’t sacrifice them. I’d pull the plug on my dreams before then. They don’t deserve a monster or a mutated lizard momma. 🙂
Timely post. This Thanksgiving we are staying home. Just my hubby, me and the kiddos. Low key. Perhaps, I’ll have an epiphany. 🙂
Nov 20, 2012 @ 16:36:35
Haha. Watch out! They multiply!
I don’t have children yet, but because my husband and I want to adopt in the future, that’s one of my reasons that I know I need to learn to slow down. Right now, my husband is one thing I won’t sacrifice, even if it meant my dreams went out the window or had to be delayed.
If I come up with any magic solutions, I’ll pass them along 🙂
Happy Thanksgiving!
Nov 19, 2012 @ 23:42:51
Sometimes I’m at warp speed; sometimes time just drag by. I guess that’s what keeps life interesting.
Have a nice Thanksgiving!
Patricia Rickrode
w/a Jansen Schmidt
Nov 20, 2012 @ 16:36:59
Happy Thanksgiving to you too 🙂
Nov 20, 2012 @ 00:09:55
Warp speed is exhilarating for a time, the crash and burn isn’t quite as much fun. I’m trying to balance things better, it’s a constant struggle.
Hope everyone has a chance to slow down and enjoy the Thanksgiving feasting and visiting!
Nov 20, 2012 @ 16:37:46
It’s unfortunate that the crash and burn seems to be the unavoidable consequence of moving so fast. I have a suspicion it really is all about finding the balance, hence that’s my mission.
Nov 20, 2012 @ 00:56:08
If I were a lizard on that planet with Mr. Paris, we’d probably have 32 babies by now. I’m so there. Warp 10 has kicked my butt…and doing a complete 50,000 word NaNoWriMo manuscript in 12 days was like the semi flattening that butt into a pancake. Repeatedly. It’s been a week, and I still want to nap, nap again, and then nap some more. The rest of my November goals have fallen by the wayside for the moment (hoping to catch up a little bit tonight, but I truly don’t care about anything but the naps right now).
I did read one thing that seriously resonated with me a couple of nights ago. Make a plan and allocate my time. I’m going to spend the rest of the month trying to come up with a schedule that will allow me to be productive, yet not burn me out quite as much as I’m burned out right now.
This was a post well worth repeating, Marcy! Happy USA Thanksgiving to you. 🙂
Nov 20, 2012 @ 16:40:14
Tee hee. I was in high school when Voyager first aired, and I had a huge crush on the Tom Paris character.
I’m a big fan of schedules because I think they do make life easier and more balanced. When I let mine slide (as I’ve done lately), I end up in panic mode. The new year is a great time for all of us to start fresh!
Happy Thanksgiving to you too 🙂
Nov 20, 2012 @ 04:23:23
A very timely message for me, Marcy! I used to be retired, until the “I must write fiction” virus that had lain dormant in my system for years was somehow revived.
Now I’m working 12+ hours a day getting my writing career launched. I want my life back. New Year’s resolution a few weeks early. I will get my life organized in 2013 and have some fun again!
Nov 20, 2012 @ 16:27:55
I think that as much as we love what we’re doing, we shouldn’t have to work 12+ hours a day. Obviously there will be seasons (like during a book launch) when we might have to put in those longer hours, but I’m determined to find a way to be able to do a more normal 40-45 hour work week and still achieve my dream. Life passes by much too quickly for us to work it all away. Let me know how your resolution goes. Maybe I should form an online “support” group for those of us who are trying to find more balance.
Nov 21, 2012 @ 16:00:47
This was great, and something I really need to keep in mind. Sometimes I sit back and have to tell myself to just relax. I can take a moment to watch a movie and not have to multi-task at the same time, or just spend time with friends and not worry about the 25 e-mails that just popped up on my phone. Thanks for the reminder, and awesome post as always.
Nov 22, 2012 @ 18:01:49
You’re welcome 🙂 Just the other day, my husband actually asked me why I couldn’t just watch a movie without having to do something at the same time. I realized it’s a bad habit I’ve gotten in to because of the perceived need to get more done. We all need some time to just slow down and relax without feeling like we need to be doing three other things at the same time!
Nov 22, 2012 @ 22:02:44
I’m late! I’m late in responding to your blog. So that means I need to slow down and catch up of my favorite blog!
Have a safe and Happy Thanksgiving weekend, Marcy! 🙂
Nov 22, 2012 @ 22:05:17
Hey Marcy,
How did you link up other people’s posts, including mine?
Please do tell. What a wonderful idea!
Thanks,
Tracy
Nov 22, 2012 @ 22:41:15
It’s a WordPress plug-in called CommentLuv. I like that it immediately lets me (and everyone else) see a recent post from each commenter. If you’re not comfortable installing it yourself, I’m sure Karen could quickly set it up for you 🙂
Nov 22, 2012 @ 23:04:22
Thank you, Marcy!
I’ll try and do it myself, but it’s good to know I’ve got my amazing web gal, Karen to take care of it if need be.
Tracy
Nov 25, 2012 @ 22:36:02
Go figure, I had to get Karen to do it for me. But CommentLuv is now up and running.
Thanks, Marcy
Hope you’re enjoying your weekend away! 😀